I think…in many ways..we set ourselves up for disaster. Like, we have this one thing in our lives, right? There’s always that one thing.. Be it a person or object or a memory and it comes into our lives and we just need it. We need it like fire because it ignites in our veins. We have these things in our lives because they have impacted us so immensely and positively and we would be devastated if they diminished into thin air. But that’s when disaster really sets in. That moment you realize that one thing is so important to you just disappears or it changes. We set ourselves up for disaster the minute we open ourselves up to anything else